Y’all, Tommy Lee just went off on Tamar Braxton’s boyfriend, Jr., calling him out for using Tamar to get under her skin and humiliate her. But that’s not all—Tommy’s also showing support for Tamar in their public spat with Jr. It’s wild to see Tommy and Tamar teaming up, but it looks like Jr. played them both dirty, so they’ve joined forces to take him down. You know the saying: “The enemy of my enemy is my friend.”
Tommy didn’t hold back. She made some serious accusations, saying Jr. is a bully who’s allegedly been physical with both her and Tamar. But how did Tommy even get dragged into this mess? Is she just trying to stay relevant? For those who don’t know, Tommy and Tamar have had their issues for a long time and never miss a chance to throw shade at each other. Remember when Gran Rock acted up at Tamar’s concert last year? Tommy took a jab at Tamar, accusing her of using the drama for clout. Tamar clapped back, calling Tommy a flop and telling her to keep quiet.
Tamar’s response was fierce: “And before someone grabs my phone, if you’re on the C-list, your name starts with a T, and you’ve never even sold out a bag of Blow Pops, stay silent. God bless y’all. Let me and my team heal from this trauma in peace.”
She added, “So now you want me to address out-of-work reality stars? Never. Me and my muppet-employed self will keep you on the list if I need a non-fighting seat for a $2,500 episode for one of these shows I’m casting. We’re not the same. Go sell some apps for your next hit. I’ll be bringing my next one.”
If you’re wondering how this whole mess got started and what it’s all about, let me break it down for you. It all kicked off when Tommy got irritated by Tamar’s comments. Honestly, Tamar was the one who stirred the pot in the first place. Meanwhile, Tamar was having her own drama with her boyfriend, Jr. A few days before, Jr had dumped her on social media, totally blindsiding her. Fast forward, and Jr ended up hooking up with Tommy, making it clear they were still seeing each other. Tamar, bless her heart, took this as a challenge to win her man back from Tommy. She managed to do just that, but it made her look pretty ridiculous in the process.

To top it off, Tamar flaunted her reunion with Jr and took some shots at Tommy. She bragged, “That’s why I had to go get my man back, y’all. You’d be lying if you thought I was just gonna let him go because he took some other girl to a basketball game while we were broken up.”
Tamar and Jr even went to the game together again, clearly trying to send a message to Tommy that she’d won him back. Tamar probably thought this would get under Tommy’s skin, but it ended up backfiring. Tommy exposed the truth and revealed she was indeed involved with Jr. Tommy shared some receipts showing that Jr had invited her to the game first before asking Tamar. He only asked Tamar because Tommy had said no. One of the texts from Jr said, “Okay, well, I only have plans that you are welcome to join. A field-level suite for the Saints versus Falcons game. I’m here till Thursday.” He also seemed to throw shade at Tamar with his comment, “I am on a positive energy journey only. I’m allergic to negative or toxic.”
Tommy responded with, “Love that for you. Honestly,” and added, “Had to heal and thankful for all that I learned in that healing.” When it came to the game, Jr’s message was, “Okay, well, I only have plans that you are welcome to join. A field-level suite for the Saints versus Falcons game.” Tommy asked, “What day is this?” and Jr replied, “Sunday after Thanksgiving.” That’s the same game Jr later took Tamar to, showing she was just a backup option.
Tommy didn’t hold back with her message: “Love in war, not tug of war. Stay strong with those cameras. Cut everybody who knows. Jokes on them.” We all know Tommy can be a bit unpredictable, and she didn’t stop there. She bragged about how she had gotten Jr. to do something quite personal, saying, “The messed up part is that you’re calling him your man. He knew there was a situation between us and was still up for playing games. I didn’t take him seriously. He had his fun and I sent him on his way.” But she didn’t stop there—Tommy also revealed that Jr. was spilling secrets about Tamar. “You don’t want me to spill how you kicked her out and she went back to her mom’s house. Not Mrs. Braxton. Not Mrs. Singer with the so-called sold-out tour. Jr. told me it was all a lie. No sold-out shows between us. That’s what he said. You were messy. He said you went back to your mom’s house and told me a bunch of stuff he shouldn’t have told a stranger. I just met him less than a week ago.”

Being a Braxton and getting caught up in these low-budget dramas is already wild, but what’s even crazier is that Tamar went ahead and married him anyway. Unsurprisingly, the marriage lasted just two months before they got divorced. Tamar probably kept it low-key because she knew it would make her look bad. Recently, Tamar accused Jr. of spending her money on his side pieces and cheating, saying, “Playing me for a 25-year-old. Shake my head. Took my jewelry, took me to Kirks, and all the while had a whole [expletive]. I hate you, Jeremy Robinson.”
Jeremy, being just as messy as Tamar, came out with his own response, saying their relationship ended over six months ago. He claimed Tamar has been acting delusional, stating, “I’ll be very clear. I’ve been single for the last six months. We’ve been trying to figure out what that means—closing one chapter and figuring out how to be friends again. I’ve set clear boundaries and been honest about where we stand. Date whoever you want. I’ll date when I’m ready. I am emotionally and physically unavailable to you.”
With my birthday coming up, I’m planning to make it special, and naturally, I want someone who feels like family to be a part of it. She’s always been big on birthdays, so her involvement means a lot to me. But I’m very clear about my boundaries. If there’s any hidden agenda behind wanting to be involved, I’d rather you not be part of my birthday plans or the Turks and Caicos trip. This isn’t the time for any kind of reconciliation. If you choose to be involved, it’s because we’re friends and because I want you to stay connected with my kids. I’m happy for you to have a relationship with them, but please, let’s not make up stories that aren’t true.
Out of the blue, I got a call asking if I stayed at the Four Seasons. I confirmed and mentioned that I had extended my stay. The caller said they’d heard about someone using my card at the hotel, which puzzled me. I assured them there was no issue, and I wasn’t involved in any romantic escapades. Despite trying to clear things up, I ended up being accused of things that were simply not true on social media.
Tamar Braxton took this opportunity to express her frustrations publicly. She vented about how the situation, though not a huge financial deal, was deeply upsetting. She even criticized herself for her past decisions in the midst of all this drama.
It’s clear that Tamar and Tommy are not seeing eye-to-eye, and they’re both airing their grievances about how they were treated. It’s wild to see this unfolding. If you want to stay updated on this drama, make sure to follow.