Even with all her success, Blake Lively is catching flak for a variety of issues. Recently, she’s been accused of being transphobic, which is just the latest in a series of controversies. From her “It Ends With Us” promo to past rude comments and not-so-great interactions with fans, it seems like her skeletons are coming out of the closet. Let’s break it all down.
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Blake Lively seems to be hitting a rough patch in her career, and it’s hard to ignore some of her recent missteps. For years, she’s been a beloved Hollywood star, known for Gossip Girl and films like The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants and The Age of Adaline. Despite her strong public image and her marriage to Ryan Reynolds, her latest film, It Ends With Us, hasn’t exactly hit the mark.
This film, based on a book that deals with intense topics like domestic violence, might not have been the best fit for Blake. The way she’s been promoting it raises some eyebrows. Instead of addressing the serious issues at hand, her focus seems to be more on the fashion and glamour, which feels a bit out of touch.
Take her recent appearance where she wore a vintage pencil skirt covered in floral patterns. It felt a bit misplaced considering the movie’s heavy themes. The flowers, meant to symbolize hope and healing for survivors of domestic violence, seemed to take a backseat to her fashion statement. Blake has been enthusiastic about the film, but her promotion strategy doesn’t quite align with the film’s serious subject matter.
She’s been urging people to see the film and embrace the floral theme, but this approach has raised some concerns. While flowers are meant to symbolize healing, using them so prominently in this context feels a bit off. It’s almost like the film’s serious message is getting lost in the glamour, which makes it tough to connect with the film on a deeper level.
I did love her. There was something amazing about how she embodied a mix of contradictions that somehow felt just right for her. She was incredible. When you talk about someone with so many contradictions, it’s understandable why you’d see it that way, and it’s addressed with such sensitivity. People trapped in domestic violence situations often don’t have control over their circumstances; they aren’t choosing to be contradictory. They’re grappling with their own reality.
She was both incredibly strong and self-assured, yet also vulnerable and tender. There were moments when she seemed lost. I loved how she managed to be both masculine and feminine, how she liked old and new things, and how she was practical but also loved the glamorous side of life.
It’s interesting how she romanticized a character who, despite being a victim, was strong-willed and perhaps a bit naive but still managed to persevere. This character is relatable because they’re trying to make sense of why someone they love is hurting them. In the film, you can see her struggling to understand whether his actions were intentional harm or if he was just making excuses for accidents.
I remember a particular moment where she was asked how someone with a similar domestic violence experience should approach her if they wanted to talk. Blake Lively might not be keen on discussing this film or personal stories, so she might not be the best person to ask.
Blake, starting with you: when most of us run into a celebrity, we only have a brief moment to speak. But for those who really connect with this film and its themes, they might feel a strong urge to share their experiences with you. If someone who understands the themes of this movie sees you in public and wants to talk, what’s the best way for them to approach you? How would you suggest they go about it?
I’m going to give Blake a bit of slack here. I get the sense that she might just prefer to avoid interaction altogether, as many celebrities do. It seems like she’s not really into engaging with fans or dealing with personal requests, like asking for her address or phone number. I can imagine if we shared our location with her, she’d probably be pretty uncomfortable.
As a Virgo, I’m all about details and emotions, so let’s get into it. Are we talking logistics or feelings here? If someone came up to Blake and said, “Your movie changed my life and helped me get out of a bad situation,” I don’t think it’s about asking for personal info like a social security number. Some people have taken issue with her sarcastic tone on such a sensitive topic. One comment I saw was, “Her sarcasm on a delicate issue is shocking. Her acting was fine, but they should have picked someone genuinely invested in domestic violence awareness.” Another said, “Supporting Blake is like supporting those who harm others because she seems more interested in her career than in really addressing domestic violence.”
Now, let’s talk about Justin Baldoni. He’s taken a completely different approach. He’s been out there advocating for domestic violence awareness and sharing helpful resources. Meanwhile, Blake’s been busy promoting her personal brand and her hair care line. If you check out their Instagram bios, Baldoni’s is filled with resources for people in need, while Blake’s is all about brand promotions. This difference probably explains why they had creative differences on the project—Baldoni was deeply committed to the cause, while Blake seemed less engaged.
When someone said, “This is your night, Mister,” Blake Lively replied, “No, this isn’t my night; this is a night for all the women we made this movie for. This is a night for Blake.” It’s clear she feels deeply connected to the film and its message. She explains that while the movie is about love and hope, it doesn’t shy away from the tough issues. Her hope is that if someone like Lily Bloom from the film sees herself on screen, she might make different choices for her own life. Instead of asking why someone stayed in a difficult situation, Blake suggests we should ask why harm happens in the first place.
However, Blake has faced some criticism, especially regarding her behavior during her time on “Gossip Girl.” Some people have accused her of having a “mean girl” mentality. For example, former co-star Leighton Meester has been at the center of this. There was a moment when Blake made a comment that blondes are superior to brunettes, which many took as a jab at Leighton, who is brunette. Another clip showed Blake calling Leighton a monkey, which was widely condemned as offensive. You can see Blake’s discomfort in the clip where she says, “I think I’m just brunette ’cause of the books. Everyone knows blondes are nicer.” [Laughter]
It’s also curious how Blake interacts with people. Some wonder how she and Ryan Reynolds, known for their strong personalities, get along so well. There was a funny moment when Blake talked about having a pet monkey named Chuck with matching outfits, and I thought, “I’d love to be part of that show, but I can’t act with a monkey.” Blake’s behavior has also been a topic of discussion in an interview with America Ferrera while promoting “The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.” During this interview, Blake used the chance to talk about “Gossip Girl,” which felt a bit awkward and self-serving.
Blake’s interactions with fans have raised eyebrows too. For instance, she once told a woman to leave her man and dismissed a fan’s friendship bracelet because it didn’t match her outfit. These incidents make you wonder how she treats people around her. Imagine being one of her nannies or house staff: “Please say hi to Stephanie, my girlfriend.” “Hi, Steph, you should leave him.” Her humor can come off as sarcastic and out of touch. For example, when a fan gave her a bracelet, Blake’s response was, “Oh my gosh, thank you so much. That’s so sweet. I’m going to put it here ’cause it doesn’t go with my outfit, but I’ll wear it later.” It’s clear that her co-stars seem to handle these situations with more grace and acceptance.
So, we need to talk again about that baby bump situation with Blake Lively. She’s out there promoting a Woody Allen movie, which already has its share of controversy, and, of course, she’s pregnant. During an interview, she got upset over a comment from a reporter. The reporter said, “Congrats on your little bump,” which was meant to be a friendly nod to her pregnancy. Blake felt the comment was inappropriate, though.
She was eight months pregnant at the time, so the bump was pretty noticeable. The comment was just a way to acknowledge her pregnancy in a light-hearted manner, but it didn’t sit well with her. Given her past struggles and sensitivity around this topic, her reaction makes sense, even if it might seem over the top to some.
Blake’s responses to pregnancy comments have been a bit volatile, and it can sometimes feel like you have to walk on eggshells around her. This isn’t the first time she’s been upset by remarks about her pregnancy.
Remember the controversy when she mocked Kate Middleton? She posted a funny, edited photo to promote her Betty Buzz products, and it came off as insensitive, especially since Kate later revealed she was dealing with cancer and undergoing chemotherapy. Blake’s promotional efforts seem to often lead to mixed reactions, and this incident was no exception.
Blake Lively recently issued an apology for a joke she made about Kate Middleton and Photoshop fails, saying, “I’m sure no one cares today, but I feel like I need to address this. I made a silly post about the Photoshop fails frenzy, and looking back, I’m really mortified. I’m sorry. Sending love and well wishes to all. Always.” Her apology starts with, “Uh, nobody cares,” which kind of makes you wonder if she really cares at all. If it wasn’t a big deal, why even address it publicly? It’s worth questioning her true intentions.
Blake’s been very outspoken about protecting children from exploitation, working with the Child Rescue Coalition. It’s great to see someone in Hollywood taking a stand for such an important cause.
On a different note, I was taken aback by what I learned about some people working with kids. When I asked a professional about the youngest children he sees, he mentioned “infants”—even those with the umbilical cord still attached. As a parent, this was absolutely chilling. It’s horrifying to think that people we trust, like doctors or coaches, could be involved in something so disturbing.
What’s even more puzzling is Lively’s recent defense of Woody Allen. Despite the ongoing criticism over allegations of assault by his stepdaughter Dylan Farrow back in 1993, Lively praised him as “empowering” and described his film sets as positive environments that boost confidence. This defense is raising eyebrows, especially considering Allen’s controversial history.
Adding to the controversy, Lively included music by Mike Milos in her latest project. Milos is part of a band with a troubling history of using harmful audio clips. Alexa Nicholas, who has a painful past with Milos, has expressed her disappointment over Lively’s choice.
It’s frustrating to see Lively’s privilege at play, especially when it seems like she’s not fully acknowledging the impact of her actions. Despite the backlash, she remains a prominent figure in Hollywood, which raises questions about accountability in the industry.
I’d love to know what you think about all this.