Hey everyone, welcome! Before diving into today’s topics, a quick reminder: Election Day is just around the corner, so if you haven’t voted yet, make sure to hit the polls tomorrow. Here’s a rundown of dates and times across different states to help you plan your vote. Also, I urge everyone to prioritize safety, especially post-election, given the tense political climate. We’re in uncertain times, and it’s crucial to stay safe.
Now, let’s jump into the latest on Keke Palmer and a few other topics.
First off, let’s talk about actress and singer Keke Palmer. Recently, she shared a video of herself kissing a mystery man, who turns out to be her boyfriend. They’ve been together for a few months now. His name is Stinh or Stein (I’m not quite sure of the pronunciation), and he’s an aspiring musician affiliated with the group May 7. While it’s unclear how they met, their shared passion for music might have played a role.
Keke posted a clip of their kiss on Twitter, along with a caption that sparked some real conversation about trust, anxiety, and emotional struggles. However, it seems like many people were more focused on the fact that her boyfriend is white. Here are some of the comments that popped up under her post:
In response to Kiki and her associates reviewing the comments, one stood out: “God despises bed winches, and so do I.” Another remark read, “Basic arithmetic seems to trouble some, especially if a white man is involved.” Meanwhile, a meme circulating depicted deep distress, captioned, “It’s unsettling for both me and my ancestors.” Another commenter criticized Kiki Palmer’s association with individuals of Caucasian descent, stating, “Kiki Palmer aligning herself with the mayonnaise community is disappointing.” Twitter users further added to the commentary, with one describing a white person’s lips as “snow possum.” Another lamented, “Another one bites the dust.” The reaction to Kiki’s post extended to reposting memes featuring Hotep Umar Johnson, emphasizing the need for an “unapologetically African alpha male” to handle her, rather than someone deemed unfit.
The negative responses to Kiki Palmer’s new boyfriend were abundant, particularly from Black men. Unfortunately, it’s a recurring pattern where Black women, especially those in the spotlight, face criticism for dating outside their race. However, it’s disheartening that such judgments persist in 2020. People should have the freedom to date whoever they choose without facing backlash. Addressing a potential counterargument, it’s essential to clarify that most Black women aren’t angered by Black men dating outside their race. Rather, it’s the disrespect toward Black women in the process that sparks frustration. Dating preferences are personal, but using them to degrade one’s own community only perpetuates self-hatred.
It’s frustrating to witness the backlash Kiki Palmer is receiving just because she’s dating a white man now, especially considering her history of advocating for the Black community and her past relationships with Black men. As long as her partner treats her well, respects her, and genuinely makes her happy, there shouldn’t be an issue with her choice of relationship. However, if there are signs of toxicity or if he’s exploiting her, then it’s a valid concern worth discussing. But based on what I’ve observed, they seem to be a harmonious couple, so people should let them be.
Moving on, the recent attention on rapper Lil Uzi Vert and JT from the City Girls has been notable. Uzi’s public acknowledgment of their relationship, particularly with the deleted photo, suggests a shift away from his previous long-term relationship with Brittany Byrd. Yet, Uzi and JT’s relationship has been tumultuous, with JT publicly expressing grievances about feeling miserable in the past. Despite her declaration of being done with him, they reconciled, leading to further complications. It’s evident there’s been a lot of drama since they rekindled their relationship.
Uzi got upset with JT once upon a time when he spotted her in the club, twerking on FaceTime with G Herbo. Despite their banter being harmless, Uzi took offense, expressing his disapproval: “This girl shakes her tail on camera for your homie, lays hands on you, and always twists it to make you the villain. Those dudes aren’t genuine friends. Big facts. Remember, they’re just after what you’ve got.”
Allegedly, Uzi was caught between his first girlfriend, Brittany, and JT. Even while with JT, he gave Brittany a dog, fueling speculation about his involvement with her. Furthermore, Uzi was seen kissing another woman, dismissing it as fan interaction, but the woman’s subsequent posts and JT’s Twitter feud with her revealed otherwise.
Their relationship remained turbulent, with JT declaring her break from Uzi, stating, “I’d rather drink glass than ever deal with that F boy again.” Yet, just days later, a picture surfaced of JT and Uzi together in his bathroom, sparking controversy. JT attempted to pass it off as old, but fans quickly debunked it, noticing her identical nails and lace front from a recent club outing with Young Miami and Megan Thee Stallion.
Despite the messiness, JT and Uzi’s relationship seems official. However, opinions remain divided on whether it’s genuine or simply for publicity. Given the history of successful PR relationships in hip-hop, some speculate that JT and Uzi might benefit from the attention, but the unpredictability of their dynamic leaves room for potential chaos.
I doubt their relationship will last long, but it’ll be intriguing to witness the antics that come with it. Speaking of which, I noticed something interesting: JT was at the club partying alongside her group member Young Miami, Megan, and The Baby. They were all hanging out in the same section, and it seemed like JT had her eyes on The Baby. He even posted about it on his Insta story, and it looked like she was showing some interest in him. Who knows, maybe JT has some feelings for The Baby too?
Anyway, let’s switch gears to Doja Cat. She recently had a heated exchange with her fans after they criticized her for partying without a mask. Considering we’re still in the midst of a pandemic and COVID cases have been on the rise, it’s definitely a cause for concern. Over the weekend, I noticed many celebrities hitting up parties without masks. In Doja Cat’s case, she did take a COVID test before partying. She attended Kendall Jenner’s party, where everyone was required to get tested beforehand. However, her fans weren’t aware of this and called her out on Twitter, leading to her lashing out at them.
One individual expressed concern, saying, “Doja, this isn’t the right way to shape the world,” to which Doja responded, “Sorry, but if you can’t bother to get tested, then tough luck, sloth.” Another person remarked, “Seriously, why are you acting like this? We just want you to own up to your actions,” prompting Doja’s reply, “Haha, taking accountability for undergoing four tests in a single week? Get real, you absolute nerd.” Yet another fan advised, “Insulting your supporters isn’t cool,” to which Doja retorted, “Zip it, old hag.” Additionally, a request for an apology was met with, “If that’s what you’re asking for, you can kiss my rear.”
Doja’s behavior was excessive and needlessly disrespectful. These actions echo the past issues that landed her in trouble. Despite her talent, her attitude can be off-putting. While it’s understandable that she was irritated by repeated inquiries about her mask, there are more respectful ways to address the situation. She underwent four tests as required before attending Kendall’s party, which should be acknowledged. Singling her out when others flout safety measures seems unfair. However, her choice to lash out at fans was uncalled for and disappointing.