Hey everyone, welcome to this fantastic channel! So, on The Ellen Show, comedian Tiffany Haddish mentioned something interesting – she said she had a fling with rapper Chingy. Ever had a secret celebrity romance? Well, I’ve dished about one. But was it really romance, or just some spicy fun? Oh, and what about you and her? Well, yeah, it was a hookup, just that.
Well, witnessed this situation, and he wasn’t amused. He stated that Tiffany Haddish was fabricating stories. Now, Tiffany Haddish knows perfectly well that’s not true, and since she’s spreading falsehoods, he’s setting the record straight. She used to have a relationship with my brother, not me, although she did show interest in me. Let’s keep it real if we’re going to speak the truth.
I found it intriguing that some individuals in the comments were criticizing him for calling out Tiffany. One person argued, “We all have our secrets in the closet, hookups included, let’s not be harsh.” To which he responded, “How can you have secrets that never happened? I’m mature enough to admit to my actions, but let’s not entertain childish lies.” Another woman questioned, “Where’s the humor?” He retorted, “Indeed, where’s the humor in deceit? There’s none.” She suggested brushing it off, to which he replied, “It’s not that simple; lies shouldn’t be normalized.”
When someone defended Tiffany, he remarked, “But would she tolerate lies about herself? Nah, that’s not acceptable, but it’s all love.” Another commenter advised him to appreciate the mention, to which he clarified, “I don’t seek validation through mentions; it means nothing to me.” And when told to just accept it, he retorted, “Sorry, but lies shouldn’t be brushed aside.”
It’s intriguing how some were dismissive of Tiffany’s blatant lie while criticizing him for speaking the truth. What they fail to understand is that [Insert Name] has been falsely accused before, so he takes such allegations seriously. He will deny them if they’re untrue.
I’d like to discuss a similar incident involving [ __ ] from the early 2000s. If you’re unfamiliar, Chingy was a highly popular rapper during that era, known for hit tracks like “Right Thurr,” “One Call Away,” and “Holiday Inn.” His career was on an upward trajectory despite some business disputes with his label. Following his departure from Ludacris’s label, he was set to sign with another. However, a transgender woman named Sidney Starr falsely claimed to have had a relationship with Chingy, leading to the loss of his record deal.
I essentially conveyed to him that I embrace transgender individuals because I identify as a transgender woman myself. I acknowledged the possibility that he might not want to associate with me due to this fact, and I regretted any discomfort my previous statement might have caused. My main grievance was observing how certain radio hosts would interview individuals without verifying the facts. It seemed like they were eager for the story to be true, as no one reached out to me for clarification. Eventually, the truth emerged when the person who spread the false story admitted to lying. Regarding the timing of when I shared the story about having a romantic relationship with Chingy, it was about two years after the photos were taken. Despite realizing it was a mistake, I succumbed to pressure from others who assured me it would boost my status. Reflecting on it now, I deeply regret my actions and wish I had not succumbed to external influence. I wasn’t in the right state of mind back then, and if I could go back, I would choose differently.
Sidney Starr, the transgender woman, admitted that all the accusations she made against you were false, and indeed they were. I recall the day during our Chicago summer show with Lucas when the promoter had some dancers on stage, clad in body paint, for promotion. Among them was someone I mistook for a young woman who approached for a photo. Assuming she was a fan, I obliged. Two years later, allegations emerged about a supposed relationship with a transgender individual. Like everyone else, I was blindsided. Until she recanted, there was uncertainty. However, it’s revealing how readily people believed it. It underscores the power of a single false claim from an unknown person and how easily it was embraced despite lacking any evidence.
They possessed no evidence whatsoever. Absolutely nothing. All they had was this individual’s falsehood. And even though I typically don’t engage in such matters, it bothered me deeply. It felt entirely unnecessary. Before entering this industry, I had no concept of someone attempting to undermine my career or tarnish my reputation. It was a completely foreign notion to me. I always believed in treating others with respect, so why would anyone want to sabotage me? When it happened, it was shocking. Yet, I remained composed. I stayed true to myself. But others bought into it, and unfortunately, it led to the demise of my career. I witnessed it unfold before my eyes. I even lost a significant deal because of it. Can you believe it? Yes, I lost a deal because of that. It was related to a record deal, and there were other opportunities lost as well. How did I know it was because of that? Well, it was made clear to me. The negative publicity surrounding me was overwhelming. It’s unbelievable. I’ve never experienced such a deliberate act of sabotage before. The lies were so blatant, yet people chose to believe them. It’s mind-boggling. I’ve put it behind me now. If Sidney Starr were to sit down with me, first and foremost, I would approach the situation with humility and forgiveness. You see, forgiveness is a fundamental principle, something that’s deeply rooted in teachings like those found in the Bible. So, I’ve already forgiven the person who did this to me. There’s no point in holding onto resentment. Just because someone chooses to be malicious doesn’t mean I have to stoop to their level. I choose to remain true to myself, to keep a pure heart. I would simply express to that person how deeply their actions affected me. It was truly reprehensible. I suffered a lot because of it. To think they were willing to sacrifice so much for their own gain, it’s just not right. That’s not the way to succeed, by stepping on others to get what you want. That’s simply not it.
Now you understand the ordeal [ __ ] endured. Sidney falsely accused Chingy, yet he displayed remarkable grace throughout, refraining from legal action against her or the radio stations amplifying the falsehood. This highlights Chingy’s intolerance for deception. Hence, Tiffany Haddish’s televised claim of intimacy with Chingy is deeply troubling. I must admit, there are aspects of Tiffany Haddish’s behavior that I find off-putting. While I appreciate her humor on occasion, her actions can be quite off-putting. A particular incident that caught my attention was Tiffany Haddish inappropriately touching rapper Vic Mensa without cause, as he revealed on Mike Tyson’s podcast.
She mentioned something when Tiffany sexually assaulted me. Alright, onto something lighter. This one really cracked me up. I was at a club in New York, puffing on a cigarette, as usual. Then she comes along, saying, “You know, I’ve never met her before.” Adding, “You’re way too sexy to smoke cigarettes or something like that.” I’m like, “Really?” So, I’m there, smoking away, and she reaches for it. I’m like, “Nah, I’m good.” Then, out of the blue, she starts rapping one of her songs from her album, something about a certain date, I don’t quite recall the exact lyrics. But as a parting move, she just reaches down and grabs my, well, you know. I’m a bit taken aback, turning around to my friend, who quips, “I think Tiffany Haddish just sexually assaulted me.” Hearing this, my perspective on Tiffany shifted. This behavior is absolutely not okay. People should know better than to invade others’ personal space and make false claims. So, what are your thoughts on this? Let me know in the comments below. And if you enjoyed this video, don’t forget to like, comment, subscribe, and share. Thanks for tuning in, and I’ll catch you next time. Bye!