On a different note, internet personality and dancer Joy Chavez recently posted pictures on Instagram of her newborn daughter, Rose, whom she shares with Dallas Cowboys player Trayvon Diggs. Congrats to them both!
But things haven’t exactly been smooth between the two. They reportedly broke up before the baby was even born, and Trayvon didn’t attend the first baby shower. He did show up for the second one, though, and gave Joy a watch, which some say was his way of saying, “We’re done.”
But I think he had another plan—he came for the food! I’m sure he made himself a plate and headed out. I bet he grabbed some wings, Swedish meatballs, Rotel dip, and a slice of cake with dry roasted peanuts on the side. If you haven’t tried cake with peanuts, you’re seriously missing out! That’s a throwback to the ’70s and ’80s.
I can totally picture him stacking paper plates, you know, the classic move when you’re making a to-go bag. He probably even had a small plate just for the cake and peanuts, maybe put the nuts in one of those little punch cups. And then, he was gone! No pictures, no gift-opening—just out the door with a “peace” sign in the air. If that doesn’t tell you where his mind’s at, I don’t know what will.
So, this is Joy’s third kid, and her first two are with Bow Wow and Future. Now, it looks like Trayvon’s already moved on pretty quickly because Instagram model India Love was spotted at a Cowboys game wearing his jersey and sitting right behind his mom. Honestly, Aunt Regina might know better, but for me, if someone’s meeting my mother, it’s got to be serious. And how serious can it be already?
Also, if y’all are out here playing “duck, duck, goose” without protection, why not just get yourselves fixed? Shoutout to Joy for managing to score these high-profile men back-to-back. Aunt Regina, we need to chat about this!
Let’s talk about Joy for a second—this is her third baby with, let’s say, some very wealthy guys. Celebrity status, right? When a woman has kids with multiple celebrities, you’ve got to wonder, is she chasing the bag? Is she having these babies for the checks? She claims she doesn’t get child support, but I’m curious to see if she’ll get any from Trayvon. I mean, who knows?
Now, just because there’s no court-ordered child support doesn’t mean she’s not being taken care of. Like, come on, where does she even work? Nowhere, that’s where!
Here’s my thing: I don’t agree with using kids to make a living. If you’re going to bring a child into this world, you should be ready—financially, emotionally, and mentally. You should have all of that sorted out before having a baby. But clearly, not everyone’s doing that. Anyway, we’ll keep trying to guide the younger generation, hoping they catch on one day.
So now we’ve got Joy in the picture, and honestly, I can’t wrap my head around why she’s having babies with all these celebrities. She’s still pretty young, so who knows if she’s done yet? And what about the guys? Don’t they check her background and think, “Wait a minute, she has kids with other famous guys—do I really want to be next?” It’s wild how nobody seems to notice these patterns.
And his new girlfriend? She’s an Instagram model. Seriously, can’t y’all meet people the old-school way, like in real life? Back when I was younger, we actually had to approach people face-to-face. We looked each other in the eye, shook hands, and had to come up with something interesting to say. A guy had to have the guts to walk across the room and ask you to dance, risking rejection.
But now? It’s all about dating apps and Instagram, like you’re shopping for groceries online. You just swipe through profiles like it’s nothing. And it’s not just the guys—women are doing the same thing. It feels like nobody’s really looking for something serious anymore. It’s all about quick hookups or finding someone who looks good, without any thought about what’s really going on in their heads.
Don’t even try to tell me you’ll get to know them better once you see how they look. Are you even checking out their interests? I’m genuinely curious. What do they like? “Oh, I enjoy shopping, Miami, and Vegas.” That’s great, but what about their favorite books? Do they even read?
Honestly, I feel like our social skills are going downhill. People just don’t know how to interact anymore. Trayvon, if you keep dating Instagram models, you’re going to end up in the same boat you’re already in. You’ve got a newborn who’s barely a few months old, and now you’re with another woman who’s just like your baby mama. What do you think is going to happen next?
So, there’s this new Instagram model named India. She doesn’t have kids yet, but she can clearly see that he’s fertile—he’s out there getting intimate without protection. That makes him an easy target. Seriously, guys, it’s time to start putting on those “raincoats” because I’m tired of this.
Honestly, it frustrates me. Celebrities might not be listening to us, but I really hope those of you out here in the real world are paying attention. I’m like an Auntie trying to share some wisdom. We’ve all been through our share of ups and downs, and trust me, there’s nothing new under the sun. You think you’re inventing some new game? Nah, it’s all been done before, just with a twist. We’re speaking from experience, not just repeating what we’ve heard.
What you choose to do in your 20s and 30s really sets the stage for your entire life—whether that’s good, bad, or somewhere in between. So, it’s time to make smarter choices. Focus on yourself, get your finances in order, see a therapist if you need to, and work on healing. When you take care of yourself, you’ll naturally attract others who are also in a good place.
And sure, those people might be on Instagram or dating apps, but don’t just focus on looks. Dig deeper! What’s their family situation like? How do they get along with their parents? Do they have any unresolved issues? When you heal, you’ll draw in people who are also whole and healthy. Let’s stop being so superficial!
Hey, listen up, young people! I see you racing through dating apps, chasing after Instagram models, and now you’ve got babies on the way. But some of you haven’t even stepped up—word on the street is Trayvon didn’t even go to Joy’s first baby shower! He thinks he can just send a check and call it a day. But that’s not how relationships work, and honestly, it feels like nobody’s telling you this. Auntie’s tired, and it’s not even the weekend yet!
Here’s the thing: you need to start with the end in mind. That’s my advice for today: begin with the end in mind. What does that mean? It means you should date with the goal of finding a true partner. If you’re just looking to have a kid and grab a check, that’s what you’re going to end up with—and trust me, you’re going to feel lonely and used. That’s not just unfair to you; it’s also unfair to your child.
But if you shift your mindset and date to find a real mate, everything changes. You’ll attract someone who genuinely fits into your life. Focus on bettering yourself—that’s the takeaway today: work on yourself and date with intention. I want to hear what you think in the comments. Now, I need to take a breather—oh wait, hold on a minute!