Tamera Mowry expressed that her time on “The Real” wasn’t a secure environment. As a former host on the show, she opened up in a recent interview with Lewis Howes, highlighting the challenges she faced, especially with the influence of social media. She described how negative feedback and misinterpretations from critics could distort one’s image, reflecting her own experiences of feeling exposed and vulnerable. Mowry admitted that she wasn’t prepared for the intensity of scrutiny and wished she had been forewarned about the nature of talk show dynamics. Despite the difficulties, she acknowledged the personal growth she gained but emphasized the toll it took on her authenticity. Her candid remarks shed light on the unique demands of shows like “The Real,” where personal narratives are frequently laid bare for public consumption.
This situation leaves them quite exposed, as it invites criticism, scrutiny, and judgment based on their words. Media outlets, including myself, often seize upon these moments to create headlines. I can empathize with Tamara’s sentiment about feeling unsafe on the show. And it’s not just her; I don’t think any of the other co-hosts feel completely secure either. Just recently, Loni broke down in tears because she felt unliked. It made me ponder: why might some people dislike me too? We’ve all faced such doubts, especially on a show like this where we lay bare our lives, opinions, and even our blunders. The process of introspection can lead to questioning everything from our appearance to our words. Through mindfulness and meditation, I’ve come to accept that not everyone will warm up to me, and that’s alright.
As seen in the clip, Loni grappled with the reality that not everyone appreciates her presence on the show. She’s faced considerable criticism during her time on “The Real,” which could partly stem from her personality. However, much of the backlash seems rooted in her past conflict with Tamar, a former co-host who accused Loni of orchestrating her dismissal. Loni has vehemently denied these claims, but the fallout divided viewers and tarnished her image in some eyes. I also suspect that Loni, being plus-sized and dark-skinned, faces additional scrutiny, although it’s rarely acknowledged. Nevertheless, despite these challenges, I genuinely enjoy Loni’s humor and presence.
I believe her contributions to the show are substantial. Many of her insights and perspectives are well-informed, which undoubtedly adds value to the dynamic of “The Real.” However, participating in a talk show environment like that isn’t always smooth sailing, and oddly enough, that’s part of the charm of a show like “The Real.” The hosts exhibit vulnerability, willingly revealing aspects of themselves, which resonates with a significant portion of their audience. While there may be critics, there are also many who deeply connect with them, highlighting the positive essence of a show like “The Real.”
Shifting gears, let’s briefly discuss Wendy Williams’ recent developments. It appears Wendy is on the mend. She made her first public appearance since rumors circulated about her health, specifically regarding dementia. Initially, there were whispers suggesting she was confined to a wheelchair due to early-stage dementia, leading to speculation about the future of her talk show. However, Wendy was recently spotted leaving a wellness center, expressing that she’s feeling fantastic. [Video Clip: Wendy walking, answering questions.] While it may seem peculiar that she’s barefoot, perhaps discomfort from her lipedema makes wearing shoes challenging. Setting that aside, her demeanor and appearance are reassuring. I’m pleased to see her up and about, seemingly in good spirits.
She mentioned we’ll be seeing more of her soon, but she didn’t touch upon the fate of her show. Speculation is rife about its potential cancellation, with rumors swirling about Sherri Shepherd possibly stepping in. The uncertainty surrounding Wendy’s show remains, yet I find solace in seeing her looking improved.
I do wish for her to continue prioritizing her health and gaining strength. Best wishes to Wendy as she ventures forward. Now, shifting gears, let’s discuss the recent Soul Train Awards. Although I’m tardy to the party, I found the show quite impressive. Among the standout performances was Ari Lennox’s. Ari possesses a natural stage presence that effortlessly captivates audiences, as seen in her rendition of “Pressure” at the Soul Train Awards. Her performance exuded glamour and soul, especially during her collaboration with Summer Walker on “Unloyal,” a track with a mesmerizing Neo-Soul vibe. Despite Summer’s battle with stage anxiety, her performance alongside Ari was commendable, with Ari’s supportive presence clearly bolstering her confidence. Their harmonious voices complemented each other beautifully, creating an unforgettable moment. Additionally, Lucky Daye’s rendition of “Over” was another highlight. Lucky’s undeniable talent and captivating persona make him a standout artist deserving of recognition. It’s heartening to see platforms like BET and the Soul Train Awards spotlighting deserving talents and honoring industry stalwarts like Jasmine Sullivan. Jasmine’s Album of the Year win for “Hotels” was long overdue, acknowledging her status as one of the greatest vocalists of our time. It’s about time she receives the acclaim she rightfully deserves. As for Normani, her win for Best Dance Performance for “Wild Side” was well-deserved, considering the sheer brilliance of the accompanying video. Normani’s continued success, including “Wild Side” going platinum, underscores her undeniable talent and impact in the industry. With news of Jasmine’s upcoming tour, anticipation is high for the opportunity to witness her legendary vocals live. Overall, the Soul Train Awards served as a platform to celebrate deserving artists while showcasing exceptional performances.
Last year, Normani’s hit “Motivation” achieved platinum status, as well as going gold in the UK and diamond in Brazil, marking a remarkable achievement. Now, her collaboration with Cardi B, “Wild Side,” is on track to hit platinum too. It’s incredible how she’s stacking up these certifications without even releasing an album yet. She mentioned in her acceptance speech that her album is coming soon, so I’m eagerly awaiting its release.
Shifting gears to the Soul Train Awards, both Maxwell and Ashanti were celebrated as R&B legends. Maxwell, a key figure in the Neo Soul movement, rightfully received the Legend Award. While he delivered a stellar performance, I wished he included some of his iconic hits like “Pretty Wings” or “This Woman’s Work.” Nonetheless, his stage presence and timeless appearance were remarkable.
Ashanti, honored with the Lady of Soul Award, delivered an electrifying performance, showcasing her incredible vocal prowess and stage presence. Her medley of hits had the audience on their feet, proving her enduring talent.
Silk Sonic, led by Bruno Mars and Anderson .Paak, also wowed with their performance, as expected. They never fail to deliver an exceptional show.
Overall, the Soul Train Awards was a memorable event, with standout performances from both veterans and rising stars. Share your thoughts on the event in the comments below, and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. Thanks for watching!