Cardi B and Offset’s relationship has been tumultuous from the start, fueling speculation that it might have been a PR move. Despite hopes for stability, their marriage has consistently spiraled into chaos, with Cardi now announcing their split and airing grievances against Offset. It’s become a rollercoaster ride of breakups and makeups that leave many wondering what’s truly happening behind closed doors.
Their current turmoil marks yet another chapter in a saga riddled with ups and downs over their six-year marriage. Cardi’s threats of divorce have become almost routine, leaving observers feeling like spectators of a messy soap opera.
Offset’s infidelity appears to be the primary source of their relationship woes, a pattern that predates their marriage. His repeated cheating scandals followed by grand gestures of reconciliation have become a predictable cycle. Their initial courtship in 2016 remained secretive despite lavish gestures like their Super Bowl date, where Offset pulled out all the stops to win Cardi over. Despite attempts to deny their relationship, their bond was undeniable, though kept hidden from public view.
However, their private relationship was thrust into the public eye when it became evident that their attempts to deny it were futile. Eventually, they acknowledged their romantic involvement. From the outset, observers sensed a greater commitment from Cardi compared to Offset. There were subtle cues, like Cardi’s eagerness for a proposal and marriage, evident even at the VMAs in August 2017. During an interview, she hinted strongly at her readiness for marriage, expressing a desire for it and children. Although she didn’t mention Offset by name, it was clear to everyone she referred to him, signaling her readiness for marriage and indirectly encouraging him to propose.
The situation turned intriguing when Cardi posted a seemingly contradictory picture on Instagram captioned “single, bad, and rich. I do the controlling.” Speculation arose, fueled by rumors of Offset’s infidelity. Tired of his indiscretions, Cardi seemed ready to end the relationship to avoid public embarrassment.
Yet, the narrative shifted dramatically when Offset surprised her with a proposal during a joint performance in Philadelphia in October 2017. While initially perceived as romantic, sources suggested that Offset’s motive was to reconcile with Cardi, knowing her desire for marriage. The proposal became a public declaration of their relationship, a grand gesture aimed at winning her back.
However, the situation took an unexpected twist when it came to light that they had actually tied the knot in September, a full month before the public proposal. TMZ leaked their marriage certificate, clearly showing they were already married prior to the proposal. So, what was all the secrecy about? It’s perplexing, considering neither Cardi B nor Offset are known for being private individuals. Cardi has always been open and forthcoming about her life, admitting to past experiences as a stripper and even acknowledging regrettable actions. She’s also been candid about cosmetic procedures. Yet, when it came to her marriage, she drew a firm line on disclosure. Odd, right? If she’s willing to share so much, why the secrecy about her relationship?
Some speculate it was to savor their relationship without the scrutiny that often accompanies celebrity status. However, according to insiders, the real reason for secrecy was Cardi’s uncertainty about Offset’s fidelity. Rumors of his infidelity surfaced before, prompting Cardi to post a cryptic message about being “single, bad, and rich” on Instagram. Allegedly, Offset’s proposal and the extravagant ring were his way of publicly apologizing for his transgressions, as they occurred post-marriage. He knew going public with the proposal would compel Cardi to accept, avoiding social media scandal. This wasn’t the first time Offset resorted to such gestures, but we’ll delve into that shortly.
When TMZ revealed their marriage certificate, Cardi was livid. She vented her frustration, explaining the irony of naming her album “Invasion of Privacy.” She confessed the decision to keep their relationship private stemmed from its rocky nature, characterized by frequent breakups and reconciliations. They were still navigating their bond, but their love was strong enough to proceed with a spontaneous marriage one September morning. It was a simple affair, devoid of pomp, with just the two of them and a cousin as witnesses. Offset remained silent about their union until Cardi’s Instagram post prompted a terse tweet from him: “Ya’ll won.” Though deleted later, it hinted at his resignation.
However, they reconciled when Cardi announced her pregnancy with their daughter, Kulture Kiari Cephus, born in July 2018. Despite their secret marriage in September 2017, they faced another split in December 2018 due to Offset’s infidelity. Cardi filed for divorce, weary of enduring his betrayal. She admitted later that loneliness and longing drew her back to him, despite knowing she deserved better. Yet, their reunion didn’t last. Cardi publicly announced another breakup after discovering Offset’s continued infidelity. She expressed her exhaustion with his behavior, vowing to end the cycle for good.
