In the world of glitz, glamour, and social media stardom, the line between private pain and public spectacle often blurs. That’s exactly what’s unfolding in the highly publicized and emotionally charged custody battle between actress and singer Hi Bailey and her ex-boyfriend, rapper and YouTuber DDG. This situation has spiraled far beyond a simple breakup, landing squarely in the realm of restraining orders, abuse allegations, social media slander, and, most recently, sole custody being awarded to Hi Bailey for their young son, Halo.
And let’s be clear — this isn’t some tabloid fluff piece. The details are disturbing, the stakes are high, and at the heart of all this drama is a baby boy caught in the storm of two powerful figures warring both in court and online.
From Fairy Tale to Restraining Order
At one point, Hi Bailey and DDG were seen as an exciting young couple — successful, fashionable, and deeply in love. Their relationship seemed to check all the boxes for fans who follow celebrity romances. But the facade didn’t last long. Behind the Instagram posts and YouTube vlogs, things were unraveling quickly.
According to legal documents, Hi Bailey filed for a restraining order against DDG (real name Darryl Dwayne Granberry Jr.) following multiple alleged incidents of physical, emotional, and verbal abuse. These weren’t vague claims either — they came with chilling specifics. Hi detailed episodes where DDG dragged her by her hair, chipped her tooth, and bruised her arm. She also reported a frightening break-in situation, where DDG allegedly entered her home while she was away, took a photo of her bed, and suggested she was cheating on him — a serious invasion of privacy that crosses multiple boundaries.
The most recent reported incident involved DDG showing up uninvited while both Hi and Halo were sick. Instead of helping, DDG allegedly broke her Ring camera and smashed her phone, forcing Hi to call the police. That was likely the final straw. After enduring what she described as escalating abuse, Hi took the legal route to protect herself and her child.
Sole Custody Granted — But Supervised Visits Stir Debate
In a powerful move that shook the internet, Hi Bailey was recently granted temporary sole physical and legal custody of their son, Halo. Additionally, the court approved her request that DDG’s visits be limited to one day a week for six hours — under professional supervision.
That stipulation, in particular, sparked conversation online. Many questioned whether DDG poses a threat to his son and if supervised visits are truly necessary. Some fans have argued that while he may have conflict with Hi, that doesn’t automatically make him a danger to his child. Others defended Hi’s position, insisting that if she felt unsafe and the court sided with her, then there was clearly cause for concern.
What makes this especially complicated is that DDG continues to claim publicly that he’s being kept away from Halo unfairly — creating a battle of narratives between courtroom evidence and social media perception.
The “Bitter Baby Mama” Narrative
One of the most frustrating aspects of this situation for Hi Bailey is the public narrative DDG allegedly helps perpetuate — painting her as a “bitter baby mama” who is maliciously withholding their child. On his livestreams, DDG often makes veiled references to being unable to see his son, further fueling the idea that Hi is the problem.
Behind the scenes, however, Hi says the opposite is true. According to her legal filing, she has bent over backward to accommodate DDG’s requests, often arranging last-minute visits, even while on location for her demanding acting and music career. Hi claims she tries to maintain communication through DDG’s mother, Miss Tanya, because DDG allegedly refuses to speak to her directly.
Despite this, DDG is said to make inconsistent and last-minute demands to see his son, often clashing with Hi’s schedule. The two young parents — one a busy actress filming major movies like Italiana, the other a full-time streamer and influencer — clearly need a structured custody plan. But Hi says DDG refuses to commit to one.
Even more damning, she revealed that DDG has never paid child support, and she hasn’t even asked him to. The only financial help she received from him for Halo came on one occasion. Instead, she says, he’s threatened to take Halo 50% of the time just so he wouldn’t have to contribute financially.
A Social Media War Instead of Co-Parenting
Instead of co-parenting in private, DDG has taken much of the drama to social media, constantly implying that Hi is keeping him from his son. One particular moment ignited widespread criticism — DDG showed up to see Halo on May 5, even though the agreement (made through his own mother) was for May 11, after Hi returned from the Met Gala.
Since he didn’t get his way, DDG took to his livestream and made passive-aggressive comments suggesting he was being kept from his child. His fans, already conditioned to see Hi as the problem, piled on with criticism. This is the same type of behavior that Hi says is hurting her reputation and disturbing her peace.
She’s not just a celebrity anymore — she’s a mother, and she’s trying to juggle that role with a career that is reaching new heights. Being publicly dragged by her ex — especially one who allegedly abused her — is exactly the kind of stress and chaos she’s trying to avoid.
A Career on the Line
It’s easy to forget that Hi Bailey isn’t just a name in headlines — she’s also an artist with rising demands. Her upcoming film Italiana marks another major milestone in her career, and she simply can’t afford to be derailed by domestic drama, legal disputes, or public slander. In her own words, “I cannot keep living like this.”
She says the abuse and unpredictability of her interactions with DDG have become unbearable. From not knowing if she’ll be verbally assaulted, to worrying about surprise visits or sudden legal threats, Hi is desperately trying to restore structure and peace to her life — not just for her own sake, but for Halo’s future as well.
Family Drama Adds More Fuel to the Fire
To make matters worse, DDG’s family members haven’t exactly been silent spectators. His brother and sister have both spoken out on social media, sometimes reposting content that paints Hi in a negative light. In one viral clip, DDG’s sister reposted a video of Hi describing herself as a jealous and passionate partner who’s quick to “clap back.”
Now, let’s be honest — Hi might not be perfect. No one in a relationship is. But fiery personality traits and arguments do not justify violence or harassment. DDG’s family trying to defend him by highlighting Hi’s personality flaws isn’t helping anyone — especially not DDG’s legal case.
It’s worth mentioning that legal experts have warned that family interference could actually hurt DDG in court. Judges don’t want to see a chaotic environment around a child. They want to see two parents willing to communicate and cooperate for their kid’s wellbeing. Right now, DDG’s online behavior — as well as his association with influencers who refer to Hi as a “demon” — is a red flag.
DDG Needs to Grow Up — And Fast
There’s a theme that keeps repeating in all of this: DDG has a lot of growing up to do. Nobody is questioning whether he loves his son — most people believe he does. But love isn’t enough. It takes maturity, sacrifice, and consistent effort to be a present, responsible parent. That means showing up on time. That means communicating with your co-parent. That means keeping your business off Instagram and handling it in court.
DDG has to realize that turning his personal battles into livestream content or subtweets is damaging — not just to Hi, but to Halo, who will one day grow up and see all of this. The internet doesn’t forget.
He also needs to stop aligning himself with people who are actively bashing the mother of his child. Hi may have her flaws, but publicly supporting people who refer to her as evil or demonic is childish at best, and abusive at worst.
Can This Be Resolved Peacefully?
With a court date set for June 4, there’s still hope that this situation can be resolved. Ideally, both Hi and DDG will put their differences aside, step out of the spotlight, and create a structured custody agreement that works for both of them and — most importantly — serves the best interest of Halo.
That would mean shared custody, scheduled visits, clear communication, and child-focused decisions. But it’s going to require both of them to step up, drop the drama, and start acting like partners in parenthood — not enemies in a war.
Until then, the public will continue to speculate, take sides, and pass judgment. But let’s not forget who really matters in all of this: Halo. He deserves peace, love, stability, and two parents who aren’t just fighting to win — but are fighting to do what’s right.