His response? It left me utterly disappointed. I mean, seriously disappointed, like, ‘Oh, really?’ because it wasn’t at all what I was led to believe, but alright. Common is finally opening up about why he ended things with Tiffany Haddish, and let me tell you, what he’s saying about her is eye-opening. While Tiffany talks about their relationship being the best she’s ever had, Common sees her as the most toxic partner he’s ever been with, even accusing her of trying to pressure him into marriage. A lot of us thought Tiffany would be the one to finally settle Common down. Turns out, he felt like he was suffocating in that relationship. We weren’t nurturing the relationship, and it was really difficult for me to balance everything and keep it… you know… thriving.
So, was Tiffany truly as toxic as Common is portraying her, or is it just Common being his usual self, shifting blame onto the woman for yet another failed relationship? Maybe he’s just not cut out for settling down with someone. It’s almost like he’s a bee, going from one flower to the next. Hard to say. All I hope for him is genuine joy and happiness.
Honestly, when Tiffany and Common got together, it felt like it came out of nowhere. They looked good as a couple, sure, but it was unexpected, and a lot of people couldn’t wrap their heads around it. They managed to convince us it was serious for a while, but like so many of Common’s relationships, it fizzled out within a year. But before we dive into the messy breakup details, let’s take a moment to consider their past relationships. Both of them have had their fair share of drama, which might shed some light on why their relationship turned out to be so toxic.
Before she met Common, Tiffany was married to a man named William Stewart, whom she once considered the love of her life. However, despite their strong bond, their relationship fell apart, leading Tiffany to file for divorce just three years into their marriage. She accused him of abusing her during their time together. Stewart responded by suing her for defamation, but they eventually settled out of court. After their split, Tiffany entered and exited a few relationships, mostly keeping things low-key.
On the other hand, Common was making waves in the dating scene, with his relationships with celebrities like Erykah Badu, Taraji P. Henson, and Serena Williams grabbing headlines. But it was his romance with political activist and podcaster Angela Rye that shed light on the underlying issues in his love life. Despite their on-again, off-again status, Common and Angela decided to part ways for good in 2017, giving insight into the challenges he faced in his previous relationships.
Angela shared that she was eager to start a family, but Common wasn’t quite ready for that step. “We realized we wanted different things,” she explained. “We’ve been discussing it for a couple of months now. I’m leaning towards wanting kids, but he’s still unsure.” Feeling stuck, she added, “I’m not sure what else there is to say.”
Common, reflecting on his past with Angela, admitted to grappling with his commitment issues. He sought therapy and learned about his tendency towards “love addiction,” chasing the initial rush of romance.
Shortly after this period of self-reflection, Common met Tiffany while both were working on the film ‘The Kitchen.’ Their connection flourished quickly, evident in their frequent praise for each other during interviews. Tiffany made waves on social media when she shared a live moment on Instagram with Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade, proudly showcasing her relationship with Common.
Their affectionate display was heartwarming, and Tiffany shared how her relationship with Common had brought her newfound confidence and joy. “I feel much more secure in myself,” she said. “It’s not just him; I’m genuinely happier. Knowing I have someone who truly cares for me is empowering. He seems to always have my back, and I love that. I love him.”
As their relationship progressed, people began to notice a change in their behavior after just a few months of dating. They became less active on social media and started dodging questions about their relationship during interviews. On Tiffany’s 41st birthday, she expressed a desire for a grand gesture from Common, wishing for a hot air balloon ride and a special meal. She said, “I’m really hoping to have an adventurous birthday with my man. Every year, I like to try something new; it adds excitement to life.” However, all Common gifted her was flowers.
Now, I’m not saying flowers aren’t a nice gift, but it seemed a bit off when Tiffany had clearly expressed what she wanted. And it’s not like Common couldn’t afford to fulfill her wishes, so what was the reason? Tiffany had also mentioned wanting Common to propose with a piece of real estate instead of a ring. When asked about it, Common’s response was somewhat vague, expressing respect for her preference but not showing any intention of fulfilling it. It doesn’t sound like he’s planning to propose anytime soon, especially not with real estate involved.
Not long after, sources close to Tiffany confirmed that Common had ended their year-long relationship. Common himself described the breakup as mutual during an honest interview with Jason Lee. “We both realized it was best for us to still love and support each other without the romantic aspect,” he shared. Looking back, Common admitted that their communication took a hit once COVID restrictions eased and their workloads increased. “Once Tiffany and I got busy again, we couldn’t give our relationship the attention it needed,” he conceded, stressing that their love remained but went unattended.
Tiffany, however, had a different take on the breakup. She accepted it but refuted Common’s claim of mutual agreement. “I’m okay with it. It brings new opportunities. Yes, I miss him at times, but that’s normal in any intimate relationship,” she stated. Calling out Common’s narrative, she revealed he broke up with her over the phone. “He basically said our relationship had run its course, leaving me to ponder his future as a perpetually single 50-year-old. It was disappointing, but I wish him happiness,” she added. Despite her disappointment, Tiffany remained gracious yet forthright about her emotions.
There were rumors swirling around about Tiffany pushing Common to have a child, despite his clear stance against it. Apparently, she even floated the idea of fostering kids, but Common stood firm in his decision not to start a family with her. He felt like Tiffany was trying to back him into a corner, pushing for marriage when he wasn’t ready. Some of his close friends hinted that Tiffany’s public hints about wanting a proposal were just manipulative tactics to pressure him into settling down.
And that’s just scratching the surface of the messy divorce saga. Insiders spilled the beans that Common’s decision to call it quits had a lot to do with Tiffany’s drama involving Aries Spears. In case you missed it, Tiffany got accused of coercing two siblings, Jane and John Doe (names changed for privacy reasons), into inappropriate acts on camera when they were minors. It also came out that their mom, who’d previously tried to sue Tiffany without success, was somehow tangled up in all this. Common apparently knew about these lawsuits long before they hit the headlines, and it left him feeling pretty disgusted.
Let’s be honest here. Ever since those accusations came out, Tiffany’s image has taken a hit. It’s possible Common decided to end things before his own reputation suffered too. He didn’t waste any time, probably sensing the lawsuits on the horizon and making a quick exit. Can you really blame him? Some folks on social media went after Tiffany, accusing her of trying to ruin Common’s life. One person even said she was pushing him to change, ignoring his boundaries, and lacking common sense. They suggested she needs to work on herself before getting into any relationships. Another commenter sided with Common, saying he was right to protect his career. They hinted that he probably wasn’t that invested in Tiffany anyway. So, what’s your take on this messy situation? Was Common justified in his actions? And how do you feel about him calling out Tiffany’s toxicity? Share your thoughts below,