Our inability to invest sufficient time and effort into our relationship hindered its growth. Love didn’t fade; rather, neglect stifled it. Brace yourselves, folks, as rumors swirl that Jennifer Hudson and Common are on the verge of a breakup post her refusal of his marriage proposal. Allegedly, Jennifer is now recognizing warning signs overlooked at the start of their relationship and desires to part ways. Additionally, Jennifer has staunchly declared her aversion to remarriage following her tumultuous divorce from David Otunga. Conversely, Common is grappling poorly with rejection, feeling blindsided by Jennifer’s stance against marriage and accusing her of leading him on as a rebound. This revelation shocks many, as their relationship appeared joyous until now. Before delving into the intricate details, let’s backtrack and understand how we arrived at this juncture.
Dating rumors between Jennifer Hudson and Common first ignited in 2022 during their collaboration on the film “Breathe.” Several sightings of them dining together fueled speculation, with witnesses describing their interactions as affectionate and playful, marked by cuddling and laughter. Initially, Jennifer Hudson dismissed the rumors, attributing them to people’s imaginations. However, a close source later confirmed to Radar Online that they were indeed a couple. Their connection, which had roots in years of acquaintance, blossomed romantically during their time filming in Philadelphia over the summer. After each day’s shoot, they gravitated towards each other, further fueling speculation. The gossip escalated when Common traveled to London for the premiere of Jennifer Hudson’s musical “A Strange Loop.” According to a source speaking to the Daily Mail, the pair aimed to keep their relationship discreet. Despite months of speculation, their joint trip to London suggested they were unequivocally together. While they arrived separately to the event to avoid attention, they remained inseparable away from prying eyes. Common seemed ready to publicize their relationship, but Jennifer remained hesitant, needing more time to evaluate their situation. It wasn’t until January of the following year that they put an end to the speculation, confirming their relationship on Jennifer’s talk show.
“I’m the host here, so I have to pop the inevitable question: Are you dating?”
[Applause]
“Anyone?”
“Well, yes indeed. I’m happily committed to someone truly extraordinary. She’s not only stunning but also deeply insightful, with a genuine down-to-earth charm. Talented too. But what about you? How’s your love life?”
“I’m also in a relationship, and it brings me immense joy.”
“And are you content in your partnership?”
“Absolutely. This relationship is my sanctuary. It’s like you mentioned, a ‘happy place’. No, seriously, her happiness brings me immense joy. I’m thankful every day, trusting in God to lead us. With God at the center, it’s a blessed journey, isn’t it?
Following this interview, many believed that the couple would start revealing more about their relationship since they seemed to have confirmed it. However, there were also skeptics who feared Jennifer might be making a mistake due to Common’s tumultuous history with past partners like Erykah Badu, Taraji P. Henson, and Serena Williams, all ending in messy breakups. It wasn’t until his relationship with Angela Rye that the extent of his challenges became apparent. He discusses his ongoing self-improvement journey, aiming to realize his lifelong dream of being a husband. When asked about seeking advice, he acknowledges guidance from a rather prominent relationship coach—Michelle Obama. Reflecting on their conversations, he shares wisdom imparted by Obama, emphasizing the importance of understanding imperfection in both oneself and a partner. While compromises may be necessary, core values should align, marking a solid foundation for a relationship. It’s clear he values the advice, recognizing it as invaluable wisdom.
The fact that Michelle Obama had to sit him down and teach him something so basic at his age is a glaring red flag in itself. I mean, there’s nothing wrong with learning, but a man who’s been through countless relationships, as Angela mentioned, should have grasped these concepts by now. Angela was ready to move past games and wanted a serious commitment from Common. However, every time she broached the topic, he deflected and changed the subject, indicating he wasn’t fully invested in the relationship and had different priorities. “We had been discussing for about two months, ‘Let’s see where things go,’ because I’m leaning towards wanting kids, and he was leaning towards, ‘I’m unsure about having kids.’ So I told him, ‘I don’t know what else there is to discuss.'” This pattern led Angela to realize she was caught in what her therapist called love addiction—a constant pursuit of that initial “in love” feeling and the honeymoon phase, which she had become addicted to.
He then stealthily entered into another romance with Tiffany Haddish after their roles as love interests in the movie “The Kitchen”. Just like with Angela, he led Tiffany to believe they had a future together, but when she started taking things seriously, he pulled away once more. “Once Tiffany and I got back on the move, it really didn’t allow for us to spend as much time and put as much energy into our relationship. I don’t think the love really dispersed; I just think it was just like we weren’t feeding a relationship.” Tiffany didn’t hold back and called out Common, exposing his lie about the breakup being mutual. She revealed it was more like him saying, “I think this relationship has run its course,” and I was like, “Okay, like you’re going to be a 50-year-old single man, okay, da… like multiple times a day.”
“I find it a bit strange because chatting with a friend feels different from chatting with someone unfamiliar or indifferent, and I care about you a lot.”
“I feel the same way about you. I truly understand your sincerity. Honestly, I sense your emotions, you know. I’m aware of how you feel, and you can sense my vibes too.”
“Yeah, absolutely. I was on Clubhouse and people were like, ‘Hey, you met Tiffany Haddish on Clubhouse.’ And I’m like, ‘No, I actually met her at Jeremy Scott’s party after I had visualized that connection.’ But back then, I didn’t realize I was seeking love, real love, and you helped me with that. I always acknowledge you for this, as you were the catalyst for me to start loving myself. I believe many people, especially in our community, have lost touch with self-love.”
It sounds like Jennifer Hudson has been through a lot in her past relationships, especially with her ex-husband. It’s understandable that she might be hesitant to jump into another marriage, especially if she’s still dealing with trauma from her previous experiences. It’s important for her to prioritize her own well-being and make sure she’s in a healthy and supportive relationship before considering marriage again. Hopefully, she’s able to find happiness and fulfillment in her future relationships, whether they involve marriage or not.
In 2008, Jennifer and her former spouse, David, became engaged, welcoming their son into the world just a year later. However, after nearly a decade together, Jennifer made the difficult decision to end the relationship due to David’s physical abuse towards her. Beyond the physical harm, David engaged in derogatory remarks about Jennifer to their son and attempted to manipulate their child into believing falsehoods about Jennifer’s fidelity, when in fact, it was David who was unfaithful. At one disturbing point, David even coerced their son into spying on Jennifer, forcing him to report her activities under the false pretense of infidelity. Truly, his behavior exemplifies narcissism.
As we observe, in addition to Common’s questionable past relationships with women, his toxic dynamic with David adds to why she’s hesitant to marry him. Reports suggest Common didn’t take her refusal to his proposal lightly and confronted her about it. Allegedly, he tried to assure her of his transformation and commitment, vowing not to repeat past mistakes. However, Jennifer remains steadfast in her decision, wary of repeating history. Despite Common’s assertions of genuine intent, Jennifer recalls her prolonged engagement and fears another failed marriage. It’s intriguing how Common, known for his reluctance to commit, suddenly desires marriage, only to face rejection. This scenario seems to echo the concept of karma, doesn’t it?
As usual, individuals had diverse thoughts and viewpoints on the matter. One person expressed, “In my opinion, Jennifer made a wise choice. She’s overcome numerous challenges and is progressing in her life. Considering Common’s track record in relationships, it seems sensible not to jeopardize her happiness and achievements for something potentially fleeting. Good on Jennifer.” Another voice chimed in, “Jennifer Hudson operates on a higher spiritual plane than Common, and she recognizes it. Besides, karma is a force to reckon with. People seldom change fundamentally. Common may drain energy from others. Jennifer grasped this in time. Wishing her all the best.” Now, I’m curious about your perspective. What are your thoughts on Jennifer’s decision to turn down Common? Do you anticipate this rejection leading to a permanent breakup? Share your thoughts in the comments below, and remember to check out the linked video for more intriguing content.