Hey everyone, welcome! Today, we’ve got some hot topics to dive into. Firstly, Amanda Seales is speaking up about her experience with “The Real,” accusing them of borrowing her idea without proper credit. And then, we’ll delve into Tamar Braxton’s recent revelation following a restraining order from her ex, David Adefesso. Let’s break it all down.
Let’s start with Amanda. Formerly a co-host on “The Real,” she made waves last summer when she announced her departure, citing a misalignment with the show’s ethos. She expressed discomfort with the inability to authentically connect with her audience and handle disparaging treatment from certain individuals.
Amanda later expanded on her grievances during an Instagram Live session with comedian Godfrey. She disclosed a conflict with one of the show’s producers, particularly regarding her brand, “Smart, Funny, and Black.” Allegedly, “The Real” appropriated her concept for a segment, with the same producer overseeing its execution. Tensions escalated during filming, leading to a complaint from the producer to higher-ups about Amanda’s conduct.
Stay tuned as we hear directly from Amanda in the video clip I’m about to share, courtesy of “The Neighborhood Talk 2” on Instagram.

During a ‘Smart, Funny, and Black’ segment on ‘The Real,’ there was a bit of a mix-up. Despite having three black women producers and one black male producer on the team, the task fell to a white woman. When questioned about it, she admitted to not fully understanding the subject matter and simply intending to transcribe the discussion. This prompted a discussion about appropriate segment assignments based on expertise, akin to having a Jewish team member oversee a segment on a Sabbath dinner. This incident, among others, contributed to Amanda Seales’ decision to depart from the show. She cited issues with the show’s fanbase and discomfort discussing certain topics, especially those related to black issues.
Recently, Amanda called out ‘The Real’ again, alleging that they copied her intellectual property with a segment titled “Black Lives Matter University,” featuring a logo similar to her ‘Smart, Funny, and Black’ branding. She criticized the show for lacking creativity and integrity, asserting that they could have addressed black awareness without imitating her work. Amanda’s social media post emphasized the importance of calling out the appropriation of black creators’ work and expressed her intent to focus on positive endeavors despite such challenges.
So, here’s Amanda’s perspective: she believes the producers deliberately replicated her creation, and she might be onto something. It’s possible that this trademark and segment were influenced by Amanda, despite her departure. “The Real” still feels the absence of her contributions, particularly her unapologetic discussions on black issues. They miss that authenticity. Naturally, they’d want to integrate some of her ideas into the show, much like they did when Tamar exited. During Tamar’s tenure, she had segments like “Shade No Shade” and “You Tried It.” After her departure, “The Real” attempted to emulate these with “Rate the Shade,” but it felt contrived, as if they were trying to emulate Tamar’s essence without her presence, and it fell flat.

The same pattern seems to be repeating with Amanda. The show seems to be striving to capture her impact, even though initially there was pushback against her discussions on black issues. Now that such topics are more widely accepted, the network wants to engage with them, but it feels somewhat forced.
Do you believe the show intentionally mimicked Amanda’s style, or is Amanda overanalyzing? Share your thoughts below.
Let’s delve into the latest concerning Tamar Braxton. Recently, she addressed her split from David Adefesso after a turbulent breakup that made headlines. The situation escalated to the point where David sought a restraining order against Tamar.
“I’ve experienced domestic violence and assault. I was driving at high speed when I was attacked, receiving a blow to my neck in my Jaguar. It was a terrifying moment, feeling like I might crash. I had to call my mom, seeking comfort amidst the chaos. What’s worse, I later discovered I was being secretly recorded, a clear violation of privacy and trust. The incident left my car, a Rolls Royce, significantly damaged, nearly $30,000 worth. Law enforcement is now involved, turning this into a criminal case.”
After David shared his perspective, Tamar disclosed additional details to Hollywood Unlocked via text message:
“He threatened my life, mentioning words I can’t spell out due to YouTube’s sensitivity. This happened en route to treatment. He wants to tarnish my image on the WeTV show to save face. I didn’t report to the police to avoid damaging his reputation. David’s thirsty for fame and tried to spin the story against me. Malika can confirm she picked me up from treatment. He called the police after we left. Before departing, I removed his camera from his 2013 Rolls Royce to thwart his attention-seeking tactics. These are the facts. He’s deceitful.”
Tamar’s ex-husband, Vince Herbert, supported her. In court documents exclusively revealed by Leila Lynn, Vince expressed his disdain toward David, stating, “We’re not friends and never will be. Your treatment of Tamar was unacceptable.” Vince confronted David for his threats and misleading portrayal of Tamar’s actions on Instagram Live, making it clear that David was the true aggressor.

There’s more to the turbulence in Tamar and David’s relationship. Allegedly, David had another woman in the picture while he was with Tamar. Reports suggest he swiftly moved on with this woman after their breakup, even vacationing with her and his employees. While it’s speculated she might be one of his staff, whispers say their involvement dates back to earlier in the year. It’s hard to confirm, but that’s the word on the street, possibly contributing to the strain between Tamar and David.
Then there’s the WeTV debacle. The network aired a trailer for Tamar’s reality show, “Getcha Life,” portraying her relationship with David unfavorably. This escalated tensions between them, culminating in Tamar’s tragic suicide attempt.
Thankfully, Tamar is on the mend. She’s undergoing treatment and finally addressing the deep-seated wounds she’s carried for years. Perhaps parting ways with David was a blessing in disguise, allowing her the space to focus on her mental well-being and embark on a journey of healing.
“Recently, Tamar shared a heartfelt message on Instagram. She expressed gratitude to God for saving her and acknowledged her true heart. Despite the world’s perceptions, she believes there’s a purpose for her existence. Recognizing God’s grace of second chances, she vows not to take it for granted. Amidst life’s darkness, she finds solace in God’s light. Tamar opens up about neglecting self-love while prioritizing others for years. She admits to enduring toxic situations and using her talents for the wrong reasons. Refuting stereotypes, she addresses her mental health battles and advocates for others facing similar struggles. Tamar emphasizes the importance of self-ownership, especially for women of color in the industry. She’s determined to be the best version of herself and pledges to use her voice to empower others. Tamar’s journey of self-discovery is commendable, and I wish her all the best. Share your thoughts on her statement in the comments below. Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content. Thank you for watching, and see you next time. Goodbye.”