Greetings, everyone, and welcome! Recently, there’s been significant buzz surrounding Robin Crawford, a longtime friend and former romantic partner of Whitney Houston. Robin delved into their relationship extensively in her latest book, “A Song for You: My Life with Whitney Houston.” While Whitney and Robin’s bond wasn’t exactly a secret, it’s now under a new spotlight. Initially, I found myself questioning Robin’s motivations for coming forward after so many years of silence. Was it for financial gain or to exploit Whitney’s legacy? Uncertainty clouded my perception, and I hesitated to trust her motives. However, upon watching her interview with Wendy Williams, my perspective shifted. It became evident that Robin wasn’t seeking to sensationalize Whitney’s life or profit from her passing, unlike some others in Whitney’s circle. Rather, she aimed to unveil a different facet of Whitney—a more relatable, human side obscured by the glare of her remarkable talent and the controversies surrounding her personal life. Prior to Robin’s revelations, the public’s understanding of Whitney was largely limited to her extraordinary voice and the tabloid drama. Robin felt compelled to speak out now due to the proliferation of misinformation about Whitney, feeling a sense of responsibility to offer a more authentic portrayal of her friend.
It sounds like Robin is aiming to provide a more nuanced and truthful portrayal of her relationship with Whitney Houston, countering some of the misconceptions and misrepresentations that have been circulated in the media. By sharing her perspective on platforms like Red Table Talk, she’s attempting to set the record straight and shed light on the complexities of their connection.
It’s interesting to hear about how they initially met and developed their relationship, especially considering the challenges they faced due to Whitney’s career aspirations and her family’s concerns. Despite these obstacles, it seems there was a deep bond between them, marked by mutual understanding and support.
Whitney’s decision to prioritize her career and adhere to her spiritual beliefs, even if it meant distancing herself from Robin physically, underscores the complexities of their relationship and the pressures she faced from various quarters.
Overall, it seems like Robin’s intention is to offer a more authentic portrayal of her connection with Whitney, one that goes beyond sensationalism and captures the depth of their bond and the challenges they encountered along the way.
And that’s actually from the Bible, right? Oh, incredible. That moment really struck me. It’s like you two were writing your own story, with God present in the background. I wasn’t caught off guard when she decided we should refrain from being physical anymore. That was her calling, a talent she felt called to honor. When she asked for unconditional love, it was a clear request. She deserved that, don’t you think? Even after ending their physical intimacy, Whitney and Robin remained possessive of each other. Whitney became suspicious, convinced Robin had been involved with a backup dancer, leading to a heated confrontation. I remember how upset she was, grabbing my Bible from over the bed and tearing out its back page, shredding it to pieces. Did she ever explain why? Whitney wasn’t one for explanations. Some might chalk it up to jealousy, but it was more about possession and protection. This aspect of the interview intrigued me—it shed light on Whitney’s possessiveness towards Robin. But considering Robin was perhaps Whitney’s sole true friend during her superstar days, it makes sense. She was incredibly guarded, and Robin was her confidante. Whitney couldn’t bear the thought of losing her to anyone else, even though their physical relationship had ended. Those emotional ties were still strong, explaining her possessiveness.
Whitney eventually pursued relationships with other individuals. During the creation of her debut album, she became involved with Jermaine Jackson. Despite their closeness during studio sessions, Jermaine, who was still married to Hazel Gordy, daughter of Berry Gordy, chose not to leave his wife for Whitney. This left her deeply hurt, and the experience served as inspiration for her iconic ballad, “Saving All My Love for You.” The music video even hinted at Jermaine’s likeness, underscoring Whitney’s feelings. Yet, despite the heartache, Whitney moved forward and found herself entangled with comedian Eddie Murphy. He lavished her with extravagant gifts, including a ring rumored to be an engagement token. However, Eddie’s inconsistent behavior left Whitney confused and hurt. Instances like standing her up for a romantic dinner and rejecting her advances at his mansion deeply wounded her. She confided in her friend Robin, expressing her bewilderment and pain at the men’s lack of reciprocation. This rejection led Whitney into a spiral of despair, marked by a two-day drug binge and tearful questioning of her worth. Her quest for love seemed fraught with disappointment. After parting ways with Eddie, Whitney embarked on a relationship with Bobby Brown, her enduring romantic partner.
You know, it’s quite intriguing. Bobby Brown actually started off as Whitney Houston’s backup while she was dating Eddie. However, Whitney and Bobby ended up falling deeply in love and tying the knot. Interestingly, Eddie Murphy reached out to Whitney on her wedding day, advising her not to marry Bobby. Perhaps Eddie sensed something about their future together, but Whitney brushed it off, seeing Eddie’s concern as nothing more than his own interest in her. She was baffled as to why he’d intervene on such a crucial day. So, she went ahead with the wedding, with Robin serving as her maid of honor, despite having reservations about Bobby herself. Robin chose to stand by Whitney’s side, despite her uneasy feelings, out of loyalty and support.
Were you prepared for her to take such a significant step in her life?
Absolutely. If that’s what she wanted, I was fully behind her. I hoped it would bring her happiness.
How did you feel about her marrying Bobby?
She told me she loved him. Of course, I’d heard the rumors about him. When she revealed he’d proposed, and I asked if she loved him, she said yes. I cared for her deeply. But when she asked me if I thought he loved her, I had to be honest—I didn’t know him well enough to say. It’s understandable that she’d question his feelings, considering her past experiences with rejection in relationships.
Whitney and Bobby’s relationship was tumultuous, largely due to their drug use. Robin hinted at Bobby’s erratic behavior and even suggested there was physical abuse in their marriage. I remember when she returned from her honeymoon with that gash on her face.
Did she ever explain how she got that injury?
I asked her, but she didn’t elaborate.
She recounted, “She said, ‘I threw a glass against the wall and it shattered, and I got cut, right?’ But the cut was about three or four inches long, from here to there. Flying glass doesn’t do that.” Despite this, I never pressed her further. As I witnessed more and heard the messier details, I hoped she would tire of it. Whitney went to surprise Bobby in Atlanta. After knocking on his door multiple times, Bobby emerged enraged, exclaiming, “I don’t want you here,” and spat in her face. She fled down the hall, and Bobby grabbed a glass and hurled it. Whitney reached for the phone to call her father, but Bobby snatched it away and struck her over the head with it. Their marriage was tumultuous, and it saddens me deeply that Whitney endured such pain. However, there was so much turmoil in her life, and Robin herself couldn’t endure the chaos in her inner circle. So she departed. But when she left Whitney’s side, it seemed that things worsened, and tragically, years later, both Whitney and her daughter, Bobbi Kristina, passed away. It was devastating. Whitney’s passing overwhelmed me with emotions. I felt anger. It took time to compose myself after that tragic day. Strangers approached me, implying that if I had been there, she’d still be alive. It’s a heavy burden to bear. But what I do know is that she wouldn’t have been alone. When Chrissy left us, I empathized with her, knowing she lost her mother. I witnessed the bond they shared in the studio, on stage. Whitney adored that child, and Chrissy adored her mother. So when her mother passed, I knew she was lonely, but I believed she’d be alright. I wanted to believe she was being watched over. This part of the interview was heart-wrenching, as Whitney’s story was tragic, compounded by her daughter’s similar fate. Robin still carries the weight of Whitney’s death, but she wrote her book to reveal the real Whitney Houston. What are your thoughts on this video? Feel free to like, comment, and subscribe, and share this video if it resonates with you. Thank you for watching, and until next time, take care. Goodbye.