Hey everyone, welcome. There’s been some talk about Remy Ma seemingly throwing shade at Megan Thee Stallion by calling her a “scallywag.” Interestingly, during an interview at the Rolling Loud Festival, an Instagram model named Brittany Renner used the same term to describe Megan, even tossing around the B-word. The whole interaction felt uncomfortable, with the interviewer getting overly familiar. Fortunately, Megan remained composed, not letting it affect her professionally. This incident was later discussed on “The State of the Culture,” where Remy Ma, a host on the show, reiterated the “scallywag” remark. Personally, it didn’t sit right with me. I mean, sure, let’s break it down and look up the word “scallywag.” It typically refers to someone who behaves badly but is somehow celebrated for it. Megan’s known for her boldness and provocative lyrics, but branding her as such just didn’t resonate. It felt like a stretch. If I were in Megan’s shoes, I’d definitely be rethinking the whole conversation.
Did you catch that moment? It was pretty neat, right? She smoothly brushed it off, like, “No worries, Meg, it’s all good.” I’m not one for marriage, but everyone’s like, “Oh, you two were totally vibing,” and I’m just like, “Nah, she’s awesome, and you’re with her now.” But when I saw that, I was like, seriously, Remy? It did seem like Remy was being a bit shady, just a smidge. And she wasn’t entirely off about the term “scallywag.” If you check the dictionary, it does define it as someone who misbehaves in a cheeky, rather than harmful, manner. But there are other interpretations. Webster’s Dictionary defines “scallywag” as someone who’s dishonest or a reprobate. “Scamp” is a synonym for “rascal,” which means a dishonest or mischievous person. Another definition of “scallywag” is “reprobate,” signifying a morally corrupt individual. These definitions don’t really align with who Megan Thee Stallion is, at least from what we’ve seen. Sure, her music can be explicit, but beyond that, she’s not known for wicked deeds or mischief. Her acclaim comes from her talent as a rapper, her entrepreneurial skills, her pursuit of education, and her, ahem, remarkable stamina. That’s what people praise her for. In my opinion, someone like Takashi 6ix9ine fits the bill of a scallywag better. He reveled in mischief, and he and his crew were involved in some shady dealings, all while receiving praise for it. Now, let’s be real here. Remy Ma has displayed some sketchy behavior herself. Let’s not forget she shot her friend over money. But the key difference is, she wasn’t celebrated for it. She faced the consequences and nearly lost her career because of it.
Well, I just had to delve into some technical details there. In my opinion, Megan Thee Stallion wouldn’t be labeled as a scallywag. But let’s switch gears and discuss Cardi B. Recently, Cardi B went live on Instagram and declared that she wouldn’t apologize for a remark she made during a heated outburst against Access Hollywood. In case you’re not up to speed, Cardi B vented her frustration towards Access Hollywood for using a misleading title on their YouTube video. The title implied that Cardi B admitted her child called someone else “mommy” because she worked too much. Understandably, Cardi B was incensed by this and made a regrettable comment, wishing ill upon someone’s mother. Although I empathize with her anger towards being exploited for clickbait, her response was unacceptable. It’s crucial to recognize the gravity of such insensitive remarks, particularly regarding HIV/AIDS. While Cardi B had an opportunity to rectify her statement with an apology, she chose not to, which only exacerbated the situation. In my view, it might have been better for her to remain silent rather than doubling down on her stance, as her unapologetic stance only worsens the fallout.
You know, I made a big fuss over nothing. And honestly, I’m not going to apologize for blowing up. When people are upset, they say things they don’t mean. Everyone does it. It’s like when someone says, “I hope you fall off a bridge” in a fit of rage. It’s just wild talk. But when I say something out there, suddenly it’s a headline because people love to hate on me. They go asking every blogger, “Did you hear what Cardi said?” It’s like they need confirmation that I’m wrong. And yeah, sometimes I am, but I’m not going to apologize every time I slip up. Because you know what happens when I do? People keep throwing it in my face. They go, “Even though she said sorry, I still don’t like her.” So why should I keep apologizing for being myself? If you don’t like it, tough luck. Seriously, imagine having to say sorry every time you get mad. It’s ridiculous. Nowadays, you can’t do anything without having to apologize for it. Well, I’m not playing that game. It is what it is. And even when you do apologize, people still find a reason to hate. So why bother?
Apologizing for marriage might seem like a contradiction, but sometimes it’s necessary to confront the truth. I stand by what I’ve said, unapologetically. It’s easy for people to label me as mean, but that’s not who I am. I believe in karma, but I also believe in resilience. My past struggles have shaped me, from the days without hot water to the judgment of others. People love to talk, whether it’s praise or criticism. As for Cardi B’s response to criticism, it’s not surprising. She rarely apologizes, preferring to justify her words and actions. But her refusal to apologize for certain statements reflects a deeper truth about her character.
That wasn’t merely an emotional outburst; it was a glimpse into her character. She seems shielded from consequences by the industry, hence her reluctance to apologize. Misusing God’s name to justify herself only exacerbates the situation. Believing she’s immune to repercussions, she disregards karma. Yet, continually testing fate risks losing blessings. Pride precedes a downfall, and arrogance blinds her to the inevitable reckoning. Words uttered in haste carry repercussions. Humility and self-reflection are crucial; denying mistakes postpones growth, often at a higher cost. Share your thoughts on this video below, and remember to like, comment, and subscribe. Thank you for watching, and until next time, take care.