Greetings everyone, welcome! Recent news from the Jasmine brand reveals that the multi-talented actress, comedian, and author, Amanda Seales, is set to become a permanent co-host on the talk show “The Real.” This announcement sparks intrigue, considering the established quartet of hosts—Loni, Adrienne, Tamera, and Jeannie—has been a staple since the departure of Tamar Braxton. The addition of Amanda Seales promises to introduce fresh dynamics to the show. While I initially questioned the necessity for another co-host, Amanda’s potential to enrich discussions with her articulate viewpoints and insightful commentary, particularly on social issues, cannot be overlooked. Her unapologetic stance as a strong black voice could provide the show with a much-needed perspective. Notably, Amanda’s frequent guest appearances on “The Real” hinted at a brewing transition behind the scenes. However, as with any change, there may be apprehensions about how this shift will unfold.
Amanda definitely brings a strong presence. While she’s not as dominant as Tamar, who tended to steal the spotlight with her assertive nature, Amanda’s quick to assert herself in discussions. Tamar’s departure seemed to embolden the other ladies to express themselves more freely, but Amanda’s arrival might stir things up again. It’s intriguing to ponder how they’ll all mesh. Nonetheless, Amanda’s addition promises some riveting moments for “The Real” in 2020.
Speaking of Amanda, she recently weighed in on the controversy surrounding Kim Kardashian’s magazine cover, where her skin tone appeared notably darker than usual. While the shoot was supposedly an homage to old Hollywood icons like Sophia Loren and Elizabeth Taylor, many felt Kim resembled black celebrities like Diana Ross or Beyoncé in “Dreamgirls.” Some even noted her striking resemblance to Beyoncé in a Thierry Mugler outfit worn years ago. The backlash underscores the ongoing debate around blackfishing and cultural appropriation, as some individuals seek to emulate black women’s aesthetics for personal gain.
It’s troubling how some individuals receive praise for adopting a black appearance without truly being black themselves. Meanwhile, actual black women often receive far less recognition. Black women’s beauty isn’t celebrated to the same extent as that of non-black women. This whole trend of “blackfishing” is incredibly strange to me. Just as it’s odd for people to lighten their skin, it’s equally peculiar for them to darken it artificially. I’m not referring to a natural tan; I mean deliberately altering one’s skin tone to appear darker. This practice, exemplified by figures like Kim Kardashian, has been ongoing for some time. I distinctly remember occasions when she appeared with a significantly darker complexion than her natural fair skin with olive undertones. And it’s not just Kim—her sisters also engage in this behavior, suggesting it’s something they actively pursue. Frankly, it’s perplexing. It’s become somewhat expected from the Kardashians, who seem to admire and emulate elements of black culture without properly acknowledging or crediting its origins. This lack of recognition is where many black individuals take issue with the Kardashians. It’s not just about appreciating black culture; it’s about acknowledging and respecting the people and communities from which it stems.
I believe it’s commendable when people genuinely appreciate and embrace Black culture. However, it’s crucial to distinguish between appreciation and appropriation. Kim Kardashian has been criticized for crossing that line, notably with her Kimono line, where she attempted to capitalize on Asian culture. The Japanese community rightfully objected, asserting that she shouldn’t profit from something exclusive to their culture. Kim has a history of appropriating various cultures, seemingly unfazed by the backlash. Unfortunately, by continuing to engage with her actions, we inadvertently feed into her desire for attention. Amanda Seales recently voiced strong criticism of Kim on Instagram, highlighting the futility of justifications like her having Black children or being of Middle Eastern descent. The issue runs deeper, reflecting a lack of self-respect and appreciation for Black identity among some individuals. The Kardashian family’s pattern of appropriating Black culture is well-documented, yet they show no remorse or acknowledgment of the harm caused. It’s a disheartening cycle that perpetuates at the expense of cultural integrity.
They fail to pay homage; instead, they mimic, take, and modify without regard. It’s a recurring pattern, and some might argue there are more pressing issues, but as a black woman, I reserve the right to determine the significance of topics concerning black women. Seeing someone donning blackface on a cover is deeply unsettling. While some may try to pass it off as tan or bronzer, the disregard remains evident. This act taps into a history where black individuals have been exploited, viewed solely as resources rather than as people. They appropriate our features, style, and culture without offering anything in return. There’s an inherent inequality in this dynamic—we don’t desire what they have to offer. And let’s not even delve into the societal pressures that have led some black women to conform to certain beauty standards dictated by a long-standing narrative. This behavior is more than just cultural appropriation; it’s a deliberate choice to ignore the harm it causes. With a significant platform, this behavior sets a dangerous precedent, influencing others to follow suit. It’s essential to address and not let slide, as it perpetuates harmful stereotypes and behaviors.
Once more, we refuse to covet what they possess. White women, pfft. Despite your relentless efforts to demean and belittle us, we’ve persevered in being true to ourselves. When I witness instances of blackfishing and other forms of appropriation, it makes me question, “So essentially, they’re still not satisfied, are they?” Some may brush it off as drama, but sometimes I can’t help but feel like white women are thinking, “Well, since we can’t eliminate them, might as well try to supplant them.” We’re not interested in emulating their ways. Black women continue to be undervalued while embodying enduring resilience, creativity akin to the ancient lands of Mesopotamia, a cool elegance of innovation, purpose, and intellect, often from the very inception of ideas. Unless white women can offer something truly unique, beyond what we already possess or can create for ourselves, we’re not interested in their offerings. This isn’t about trade or negotiation; it’s a tired narrative of entitlement that has persisted for far too long. It’s time to leave that behind. These were Amanda Seales’ remarks regarding Kim Kardashian. And mark my words, when Amanda speaks her mind on “The Real,” she delivers unfiltered truth like this. She doesn’t hold back. So, are you all prepared for her to grace “The Real”? Share your thoughts below. And if you found value in this, please like, comment, subscribe, and share this video. Thank you for watching, and until next time, take care. Goodbye.